They Got It! PLUS: How to “fire” a customer and keep them coming back for more.

The stars in my Gmail are aligned …

iPearl Inc case


The stars in my Gmail are aligned …

Not only has my $29.95 been swiftly refunded in the wake of my veiled threats to mentally blow up pallets of translucent polypropylene laptop covers (see 2010: The Year of Saying: “I Got It!”) but this recent NYT rant about being e-snubbed has gotten the equally e-gnored out in the streets, poking their pitchforks HR-ward.

In my post I described in graphic detail what I believe goes through the average customer’s mind, synapse by synapse, when a vendor fails to respond, either personally or even, “droid-ally” (auto-responder).


I confess my plea that finally hit paydirt included a link to my post, and a promise that I’d amend my pyromaniacal ways if refunded immediately.

I wrote: “If you refund me right now, I will honor your decency by posting an update stating that I finally was able to get through to you, that I received customer satisfaction, and that I can, once again, feel proud to be Chinese in a world where there is increasing distrust of doing business with people who look like us.”

Ouch! Did I just stick a pin in everyone who looks vaguely Chinese? Well, cases like this don’t help anyone who looks like me, what with the China product-recall stories on CNN of late.


Like Mr Hirschfield, I received an immediate response, including a bonus personal note:

Hi, there

Your $29.95 has been refunded.
Your return item may not get processed properly due to too many orders coming in during the back to school season.


Moreover, I believe you are the most nasty lady we have ever met or imagine after we read your blog.
Why? Because you think every person you trade online are lier or cheater or whatever.
I think somehow you must have a very ugly mind inside.

As a reputable power seller on eBay and Amazon, we have served over 100,000 satisfied buyers so far.
Unfortunately, you are just a doomed customer which we can not make you satisfied because
God damaged the package we sent to you during the transportation process.

We ship thousands of orders every month, why was only your package damaged?
Because you are NOT blessed by God as your mind is full of evil.


No matter how much you try to ruin our reputation in your bullshit blog, you can NOT damage our
reputation at all with your single exception as we are seeing our sales increasing every month.

Here are our recommendations to you:
1) Trust every person you meet is good
2) Read the bible every day as you will find the peace inside your heart
3) Blog less and spend more time to enjoy your life, not trying to teach somebody else like an expert.



Ironically, a Customer Evangelist – doomed or otherwise – is not offended by this kind of reply. It shows there’s a bod, not a bot pressing keys somewhere our there, getting carpel mouse syndrome just like me. 

Now if only they’d responded four months earlier to my pleas, everything would have been different. Of course their sales will continue to soar, which I applaud, but if, like Mr Hirschfield, my post made just one company more conscious about the importance of responding, my work is done.

So what’s a softer way to tell a customer off?


This is how a company fired me – the prospect from hell – several years ago, before I subsequently got hired as their Customer Evangelist: 

Dear Lynette
I’m really sorry we haven’t been able to meet your needs. We’re a small company and though we are pretty good at doing custom orders, there is only so much we can do with our limited resources. We’re refunding your deposit, because we believe in under-promising and over-delivering, and we can’t promise we can make you happy. We hope you understand.
Sincerely …

Now, that’s a company that “get’s it.” I immediately quit my nitpicking and ordered the most expensive model in the catalog. It got me from downunder to upover today.

The Galfromdownunder is currently blogging in the Bahamas with a customer (separate rooms of course), but is cutting her trip short and donating the rest of her holiday funds to Haiti – including the $29.95 from iPearl Inc. 


About the author

"Be social and the networking will follow." Lynette Chiang is an award-winning copywriter, brand evangelist, social media community manager, filmmaker, solo world bicycle adventurer and inventor of useful things. Her work has been featured in Forbes, Harvard University curriculums, the New York Times Book Review, FastCompany and the relationship marketing business press


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