A. You don't. The power differential is too great, and his bosses have already signaled to you that they're behind him by not firing him previously.
You've got no way to know if he's the one...
A. I think Stacy's post makes sense--but I'd expand it to include the fact that other young men were also passed up for those positions.
I'd like to conclude that observation with a spiffy...
A. Men who act tough don't come off as strong leaders. They come off as unable to tell the difference between leading and barking. So do women who act tough.