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3 Reasons Every Extrovert Should Read The New Book "Quiet"

Up to a half of the population are introverts. In other words, they don’t thrive on endless meetings, don’t want to solve a problem by talking about it with a group for hours, and don’t want to attend lunches, conferences, and dinners all the time. The new book "Quiet" by Susan Cain can help us extroverts better communicate with and learn from the more silent types in our lives. READ»

Don’t Let Work Relationships Become Emotional Minefields

The extent to which someone perceives he or she has a supportive relationship with a manager is one of 12 factors that lead to intentions to perform at a higher level. If some of your reporting relationships aren’t what they should be, here's a roadmap to creating the type of working relationships that meet the needs of employees, leaders, and the organization as a whole.READ»

Return To Sender: A Letter To Netflix's Reed Hastings

Reed Hasting's letter to customers hit all the wrong notes--but there are takeaways within for other executives looking to lead and communicate effectively. READ»

The Oft-Unhappy Marriage of Apple and AT&T: "We're Apple. We Don't Wear Suits."

Wired has a great, extensive piece about the tumultuous relationship between Apple and AT&T since 2007. Particularly juicy tidbits include Apple's refusal to compromise and ever more information about the mythical Verizon iPhone.READ»

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The Relationship P’s

Healthy, sustainable relationships take work. It’s important to be in a constant state of awareness of your thoughts, feelings, actions and “stuff” and how these things impact you and your partner. That is the “work” in a relationship. The relationship ultimately requires a strong foundation. Without this, there can be much more struggle than happiness. There are three P’s that each person need to have in common for a relationship to be on compatible, solid ground. Principles, Priorities, Preferences.READ»

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Why Social Networking Your Way Won't Build Your Business

In an era dominated by ever-expanding technology and social media pressures, always remember that personal connections, referrals, and earning trust count most...READ»

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Let Go… How?

Work, families, responsibilities, relationships, fun and recreation. Changes, losing jobs, homes and loved ones. Health challenges, financial ups and downs. The stuff of life. Life is full of more “stuff” these days and less “life”. Do you feel like you’re going at mock 5 with your hair on fire? Are you feeling heavily burdened by changes and challenges? Perhaps things are going well and you’re just very busy. Have you been pushing hard to make thingREAD»

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What Can I Do?

We don't need to be reminded of what's going on out there. We are all very aware of the current turmoil. These are different times and we are creating a different earth. To create this new earth we need to do things differently. And it all starts with YOU. You hold the power. Yes, you. Each and every one of you.READ»

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Don't Go There!

There is so much fear and negativity flying around these days. Fear about the yo-yo-ing stock market, the housing/credit situation, the potential of a recession, the possibility of lay offs, etc. The fear is everywhere. You can’t turn on the television, read the paper or internet without hearing doom and gloom. If you have any contact with the outside world, you are bombarded with fear. Even if you’re not participating in such conversations, it’s difficult to escape it. From the way it sounds, no one anywhere has any money any more and the world is going to end. It overwhelms the senses and it’s everywhere! It can make the most positive person negative.READ»

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Come Together, People!

There’s so much fear and negativity these days, mixed with a renewed sense of hope. Emotions are heightened; stress is at its maximum. I have two solutions: 1. Come together. 2. Have some fun!READ»

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It IS All About You

Isn’t that great news? It IS all about you! It’s all about who you are and what you know. Everything you need to know is inside of you. Socrates says “true insight comes from within”. When you know more of who you truly are, you have all the answers. READ»

Do You Understand?

When something happens that you don’t like, do you look to understanding? Or do you automatically go for the blame, take it personally, feel like a victim or martyr? READ»

Peace of Information

A lack of information can cause fear, confusion and anxiety. In relationships, this can lead to friction, misunderstanding and hurt. Information is the key to diffusing fear, reaching understanding and gaining clarity.READ»

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Finding The One

Relationships are a big part of our lives. It is a wonderful way to experience and express love. We spend a great deal of time and energy on finding the “one”, keeping the “one”, wondering if it is the “one”, deciding what to do with it if it isn’t the “one or constantly proving to ourselves that the one we found is the “one”. READ»

Relationship Wish List

It’s time to get real with your relationships. Whether you are currently single or in a relationship, I invite you to ask yourself the following questions because this is part of the process of healing your relationships. In doing this you can heal those from the past, embrace the present and choose your future relationships with a new person or with your current partner.READ»

Release the Pressure

We are so intense about our relationships that it sometimes feels like we’re in a pressure cooker! Here are a few suggestions to release the pressure, remember what is real and enjoy your relationships more.READ»

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Overcome Dating Shyness

Do you consider yourself shy? Do you walk around and say to yourself “I wish I weren’t shy so I could approach people.” When I hear someone label themselves as “shy,” I know they are limiting their opportunities to meet and connect with people every day. Being shy isn’t a physical trait like having brown eyes … you can eliminate it and overcome it.READ»

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Our Relationship Stuff

We all have our stuff… our issues to be recognized, wounds to heal, negative patterns to end. Every relationship experience and every experience in a relationship is an opportunity to discover something about yourself by recognizing unhealthy patterns, healing wounds, and identifying what it is you want and don’t want in your relationships.READ»

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The Course of Life

Life is happening. Relationships are ending and new ones beginning. Jobs are being lost and new ways of generating income are being found. Things are changing. We are being called to find solutions and create new ways of living.READ»

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Understanding Relationships

Conflicts, challenges and misunderstandings are common bumps in relationships. Understanding relationships means understanding in your relationships. Find understanding in each situation to keep things smooth and learn compassion.READ»