Coping With Psychos @ Work
Tips from Martha Stout, author of The Sociopath Next Door.
Is Your Boss a Psychopath? Odds are you've run across one of these characters in your career. They're glib, charming, manipulative, deceitful, ruthless -- and very, very destructive. And there may be lots of them in America's corner offices.
Bosses From HellA rogue's gallery of the manipulative, abusive, grandiose -- and downright crooked -- executives who have strutted their way across the stage of American business.
For each question, score two points for "yes," one point for "somewhat" or "maybe," and zero points for "no."
Is he a likable personality and a terrific talker -- entertaining, persuasive, but maybe a bit too smooth and slick? Can he pass himself off as a supposed expert in a business meeting even though he really doesn't know much about the topic? Is he a flatterer? Seductive, but insincere? Does he tell amusing but unlikely anecdotes celebrating his own past? Can he persuade his colleagues to support a certain position this week -- and then argue with equal conviction and persuasiveness for the opposite position next week? If he's a CEO, can he appear on TV and somehow get away without answering the interviewer's direct questions or saying anything truly substantive?
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Does he brag? Is he arrogant? Superior? Domineering? Does he feel he's above the rules that apply to "little people"? Does he act as though everything revolves around him? Does he downplay his legal, financial, or personal problems, say they're just temporary, or blame them on others?
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Has he reinvented his own past in a more positive light -- for example, claiming that he rose from a tough, poor background even though he really grew up middle class? Does he lie habitually even though he can easily be found out? When he's exposed, does he still act unconcerned because he thinks he can weasel out of it? Does he enjoy lying? Is he proud of his knack for deceit? Is it hard to tell whether he knows he's a liar or whether he deceives himself and believes his own bull?
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Does he use his skill at lying to cheat or manipulate other people in his quest for money, power, status, and sex? Does he "use" people brilliantly? Does he engage in dishonest schemes such as cooking the books?
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Is he concerned about himself rather than the wreckage he inflicts on others or society at large? Does he say he feels bad but act as though he really doesn't? Even if he has been convicted of a white-collar crime, such as securities fraud, does he not accept blame for what he did, even after getting out of prison? Does he blame others for the trouble he causes?
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Is he cold and detached, even when someone near him dies, suffers, or falls seriously ill -- for example, does he visit the hospital or attend the funeral? Does he make brief, dramatic displays of emotion that are nothing more than putting on a theatrical mask and playacting for effect? Does he claim to be your friend but rarely or never ask about the details of your life or your emotional state? Is he one of those tough-guy executives who brag about how emotions are for whiners and losers?
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Does he not give a damn about the feelings or well-being of other people? Is he profoundly selfish? Does he cruelly mock others? Is he emotionally or verbally abusive toward employees, "friends," and family members? Can he fire employees without concern for how they'll get by without the job? Can he profit from embezzlement or stock fraud without concern for the harm he's doing to shareholders or pensioners who need their savings to pay for their retirements?
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Does he always cook up some excuse? Does he blame others for what he's done? If he's under investigation or on trial for a corporate crime, like deceitful accounting or stock fraud, does he refuse to acknowledge wrongdoing even when the hard evidence is stacked against him?
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If your boss scores:
1-4 | Be frustrated
5-7 | Be cautious
8-12 | Be afraid
13-16 | Be very afraid
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Recent Comments | 34 Total
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September 1, 2009 at 2:56pm by John Chellaiya
LOL. My boss score is coming as 10 when calculated. We all are afraid of him already in the office. Good analysis Guys.
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September 5, 2009 at 2:59am by Faraz Alam
I worked with one of these people as his personal assistant. He was initially charming but it soon became apparent that his intention was to further his own career without any regard for those he trod on in the process. His constant obsessiveness and harassment made work so stressful that I had to resign.Having some Coaching London alot of things become better. I wish I had read this earlier... I may have learned how to deal with the situation better.
September 5, 2009 at 10:14pm by Ryan Design
Well, mine gets a score of 13.
I'm really afraid :)
Of all the above things, he 's the worst pathological liar in the world.
Well, now he's only my ex-boss, and I don't have to care about him anymore. :)
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September 6, 2009 at 10:04pm by steve venson
I think most of the bosses will come as Psychopath. It is the work pressure and also the money invested in their business which makes them so.
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September 8, 2009 at 7:05am by Robin Son
With all these math works, my boss certainly is a physcopath. But even after knowing this, what I could do regarding that? Just think of it. Robinson
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I have known several psychopaths in my life. The clearest case involved an older teen who had no sense of guilt. He could learn the rules, but he had no sense of conscience.
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