Thou Shalt Covet What Thy Neighbor Covets

When it comes to the things we buy, what other people think matters. A lot. Here's how the desires of strangers—inflamed by branders and marketers—mysteriously become our desires, too.

Many of us spend our days—or at least part of them—quietly cursing our fellow human beings. The guy in the Hummer who cuts us off at the intersection. The old woman in the supermarket line counting out pennies one by one. The tourist consulting a map right in front of the subway entrance. They may be annoying, but when all is said and done we actually rely on these people, and others like them, to help dictate our purchasing choices—with more than a little help from companies and marketers, of course.

When it comes to the things we buy, what other people think matters. A lot. Even when those people are complete strangers. One survey, by Opinion Research, shows that "61% of respondents said they had checked online reviews, blogs and other online customer feedback before buying a new product or service," and a similar 2008 study commissioned by PowerReviews showed that "nearly half of U.S. consumers who shopped online four or more times per year and spent at least $500 said they needed four to seven customer reviews before making a purchase decision." So persuasive are the opinions of others that while many of us are well aware that roughly 25% of these reviews are fakes written by friends, company staffers, marketers, and so forth, we purposely overlook this. We'd rather not think about that. And, frankly, we don't seem to care. As the Times of London points out, we are born to believe, in part, because a collective belief helps us to bond with others. In short, we want to trust in these messages, even when we may also be deeply skeptical.

To see just how powerfully complete strangers’ preferences and purchases can sway our decisions, consider the phenomenon of best-seller lists. Best-seller lists work so well in persuading us that they can be found everywhere from, famously, The New York Times' lists of best-selling books to Sephora’s list of best-selling cosmetics to Entertainment Weekly’s Ten Most Popular TV shows to Variety’s list of the ten highest-grossing movies of the week to the Apple iTunes music store’s list of best-selling or recommended singles, albums, movies, and music videos. And on and on—well past the break of dawn.

Let’s talk for a moment about iTunes. Not unlike a Barnes & Noble superstore, the iTunes start page is a chaotic place teeming with choices. Luckily for the overwhelmed shopper, however, these endless offerings are organized into tidy recommended categories like "What We’re Watching," "What’s Hot," "What We’re Listening To," "New and Noteworthy," and, of course, "Top Songs" and "Top Albums."

An intriguing study published in the journal Science shows just how well this can work. The researchers invited 27 teenagers to visit a website where they could sample and download songs for free. Some of the teens were told what songs previous visitors had downloaded, while other teens were not told. Those told what songs their peers had chosen tended to download those very songs.

And part two of the study was even more telling. This time, the teens were divided into eight groups and told only what had been downloaded by people from their own group. The researchers found that not only did the teens tend to choose the songs that had been previously downloaded by members of their groups, but the songs that became "hits" varied across all the groups. The implications were clear: Whether or not a song became a "hit" was determined solely by whether it was perceived as already being popular.

But this still doesn’t explain precisely why our buying decisions are so unduly influenced by a brand’s supposed popularity. So the authors of the study decided to use an fMRI to see what was really going on in these impressionable teenagers’ brains when they succumbed to peer pressure. They had 12-17-year-olds rate 15-second clips of songs downloaded from MySpace. Then they revealed to some the songs’ overall popularity. The results showed that when the participants’ own ratings of the music matched up with what they had been told about the song (e.g., if they liked a popular song), there tended to be activity in the caudate nucleus, an area of the brain connected to rewards. When there was a mismatch, however (e.g., the teen liked the song but discovered it was unpopular), areas associated with anxiety lit up. The researchers concluded that "this mismatch anxiety motivates people to switch their choices in the direction of the consensus, suggesting that this is a major force behind conformity observed in music tastes in teenagers."

Early popularity is so closely tied to a brand or product’s ultimate success that even Hollywood is leveraging the predictive power of the ticket-buying hordes. According to New Scientist (subscription needed), one of the most widespread new techniques for predicting the box-office performance of a film is by using something called "artificial markets." On The Hollywood Stock Exchange, for example, movie fans can buy and sell virtual shares in celebrities and in forthcoming or recently released films. This virtual market, which operates with a virtual currency called Hollywood Dollars, uses these predictions to create a stock rating reflecting the aggregate view of each film’s popularity or likely popularity (obviously, people only buy virtual shares in things they expect to be hits) becoming the gold standard in the industry for predicting likely box office receipts, political campaigns, and share prices.

Of course, we generally aren’t consciously aware that perceived popularity is driving our preferences. So for my new book, Brandwashed, I decided to team up with Murray Hill Center, one of the top focus group companies in the country, in order to find out what we think attracts us to products. "Why do you love Louis Vuitton so much?" we asked 30 women. In answering, each of them began talking about the quality of the zipper, the leather, and finally, the brand’s timelessness. But had we heard the whole truth? To be sure, we decided to scan the brains of 16 of them using fMRI to uncover another layer of their answers.

In each case, when the women were shown pictures of Louis Vuitton products, the Brodmann area 10, the region of the brain that’s activated when respondents are observing something they perceive as "cool," lit up. The women had rationalized their purchases by telling themselves that they liked the brand for its good quality, but their brains knew that they really chose it for its "coolness," perhaps explaining why we’re all so addicted to those top 10 lists—because deep deep inside we want to be on the top of the cool list.

Martin Lindstrom is a 2009 recipient of TIME Magazine's "World's 100 Most Influential People" and author of Buyology: Truth and Lies About Why We Buy (Doubleday, New York), a New York Times and Wall Street Journal best–seller. His latest book, Brandwashed: Tricks Companies Use to Manipulate Our Minds and Persuade Us to Buy, was published in September. A frequent advisor to heads of numerous Fortune 100 companies, Lindstrom has also authored 5 best-sellers translated into 30 languages. More at

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  • Nicola Green

    I can't help but noticing how our branding guru Martin here has himself been branded as 'cool' in his own cool list - TIME Magazines 'Worlds 100 Most Influential People'.
    That can't help but influence us mere impressionable consumers into rushing out to purchase 'Brandwashed'. 

    Very interesting article. Thanks

  • MaryCusick

    I recently read an article that stated, “Over the past
    several years, the shift in our thinking—and more importantly, our behavior—has
    forced us to re-evaluate priorities.” (link to article:  With
    that being said does this mean that our priorities are in line with how well
    something is reviewed or recommended by people we don’t even know? I would have
    to agree to some extent. I myself have been strayed away from purchases because
    of bad reviews. However, when it comes to music, iTunes “Top Songs” list has no
    effect on my purchases. I understand that for teenagers a songs popularity will
    influence their decision, but as you get older your taste in music (hopefully)
    gets better. 

  • Andy Chen

    Martin, Great topic.  In that same PowerReviews study, we also studied what drives Trust in the reviews, and discovered that a large majority of consumers are aware of the fakes and spend a large amount of time triangulating other data points to determine what reviews to trust.  (
     if you want more details).  Consumers are much smarter than you might think in this regards...companies just haven't caught up.  For example, we encourage our clients to highlight negative reviews and the "cons" to encourage trust...which ultimately increases their sales.  Not intuitive, but it bears out in the results.

    Lastly, I think the "25% of all reviews are fake" is not an accurate stat.  This comes from a Microsoft study of AMAZON reviews...which could be true because because individual authors and their agents/publishers have such a high incentive to stuff the ballot.  Within our 5500 client base ( ), we don't believe the rate of fraud is even close to that number because we proactively take steps to prevent fraud, and we moderate every review before it's published.

    I agree with the premise of your story, but just wanted to get some facts straight.

  • Scott Tanksley

    Martin, kudos for this line, "And on and on--well past the break of dawn."  It's like an easter egg of humor!

    Great insight on how the "lizard brain", as Seth Godin calls it, drives so much of our lives, no matter how sophisticated we think we've become.

  • David Gage

    This human animal instinct is the reason the majority of
    voters always want to vote for whom they believe will win and not on what the
    political candidates supposedly stand for. It has only taken us a few million
    years to figure this out. Now is there anyone out there optimistic about the
    future of this very dumb animal?