How to measure the silk?

Who decide on
the mother of the bride
wear? All decided by the mothers or by the bride? Answer is
working together; bride could be a guide for you.

Definitely
consult her on color -- she may have issues with certain shades (white, black,
red) or want your dress to complement the beach bridesmaid
dresses get-ups. She may also have ideas about style, length, and
formality. Do try to respect her wishes -- her opinion should count for a lot,
and if she wants long sleeves or if she likes you best in pistachio, what's the
harm in obliging? Keep her guidelines in mind while shopping, but the evening dress
you settle on should make you happy, too.